There are no inhibitions in sex if both partners love and want to experiment. From the article you will learn about an unconventional type of intimate caressing called rimming, which will help you get new vivid sensations. We will tell you what this technique is, how to perform it correctly and what positions are best for it.
What is Rimming (anilingus)?
Anilingus (rimming, anilingus, analyngus, anusling) is oral caressing of the anus, stimulation of the sphincter and perianal folds with the tongue.
Is it pleasant: many men and women have this area very sensitive. And when the pelvis is bleeding during sexual arousal, the nerve endings become even more receptive. Not everyone can reach orgasm with just anilingus, but anal caressing will definitely speed up its approach. There are people who do not like rimming on moral grounds. Some do not feel anything in the process except a slight tickle. There is an opinion that the erogeneity of the perianal area can be developed with frequent caressing.
What is the difference between rimming and anilingus: nothing, they are synonymous.
Pros and cons of rimming
The main problem is hygiene, but if you solve this issue, you can significantly expand the boundaries of your intimate life.
Pros
- Gives new sensations.
- Bringing the orgasm closer.
- Easy to perform.
- Enjoyed by both men and women.
- Good as foreplay for anal sex.
- Useful if you have stenosis of the anal sphincter.
Cons
- Some people feel squeamish.
- Thorough pre-hygiene of the anus is required.
- You can get an infection when you move to the genitals.
- Not everyone is ready to accept such caresses. Many are shy and cannot relax.
- There is a risk of contracting infectious diseases, including hepatitis, herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia. It is also possible to swallow parasite eggs. Some people have a fungus in the perianal area, which is not visible on the outside.
Anilingus is not recommended if you have chronic or open anal fissures. It is a gateway for bacteria, of which there are always many on the tongue. In addition, stimulation can widen the wound. Anal caressing is also contraindicated if you have prolapsed hemorrhoids (learn how to make oral sex safe with latex wipes).
How to do anilingus (rimming) correctly
Failure to follow the rules can provoke a persistent aversion to anilingus and thus deprive both partners of pleasure. The difficulty is that when preparing for sex, the main focus is on hygiene of the genitals. The main obstacle to rimming becomes worrying about the cleanliness of the anus. To avoid unnecessary tension, it is advisable to discuss your plans with your partner in advance.
A few rules for a good anilingus:
- Observe hygiene. Make sure to wash the anal sphincter with intimate soap beforehand. Ideally, you can do microclysters and irrigation with warm water.
- Take into account the peculiarities. Everyone grows hair around the anus – don’t be surprised. They can be shaved off, but there may be itching afterwards. If there is a desire to remove, it is better to do it with a hot wax. Waxing cream will also work, but it can cause irritation.
- Minimize the risk of infection. With untested partners, be sure to use latex wipes or a cut condom. Such a pad will dull the sensation a bit, but protect against infection. Do not carry your tongue, finger or sex toy from the anus to the crotch, so as not to provoke inflammation of the genitourinary tract due to intestinal microflora.
Lubricant for anilingus is not necessary, but if you want you can use a special edible for oral sex.
Techniques
There are two basic techniques of anilingus: with and without penetration. In the first case, the tongue enters the ring of the anus, stroking it from the inside in a circle, up and down, imitating friction. If possible, you can go deeper and massage the walls of the rectum with gentle movements. The longer the caressing lasts, the more the sphincter relaxes. Even if your partner is tense, after a while the anal ring will become wider.
Anilingus without penetration involves caressing the perianal folds and the anus itself. The tongue moves in a circle, to the sides, up and down, makes grasping (“caressing”) movements, imitates penetration, slightly widening the sphincter. It is necessary to start with superficial caresses. It is not necessary to try to thrust the tongue into the anus.
Preparing the partner for the first time, it is necessary to go in from afar, in order to relax as much as possible. For a woman, it is light stimulation of the clitoris, you can in the form of a cunny. Then the tongue slips down the crotch to the buttocks several times and eventually stays at the anus.
Men need a particularly delicate approach, because many of them automatically associate caressing the anus with homosexuality. You can start with a blow job, a massage of the testicles. Then go to the area between the anus and the scrotum, gently penetrating it with your tongue and fingers. In a state of pre-orgasm, a man will perceive touching the anus much easier.
Additional caresses
The pleasure of anilingus will be greater if you add caresses with your hands. You can squeeze and massage the buttocks, lightly run your fingernails along the thighs to the knees and back. Parallel caresses of the testicles in the form of light but firm stroking will be pleasant to a man. Indirect massage of the prostate will add brightness to the sensations. To do this, a woman needs to find a small bulge between the anus and scrotum – this is the projection of the prostate gland. It can be massaged with fingers in a circle or in the direction of the penis.
Female anilingus is well supplemented by stimulation of the clitoris, the U zone, stroking the front wall of the vagina. The tongue is not distracted from the anus.
Sex toys
These gadgets are never superfluous. An ordinary vibrator is a great addition for male and female anilingus. For men, it can be used to give indirect massage of the prostate, and at low speed to stimulate the frenulum of the penis.
A woman’s orgasm will not be long in coming if you supplement anilingus with a vibrator with a clitoral stimulator. There are self-locking models that allow you to free your hands. It is desirable to choose vibrators with autonomous motors in each part.
Anilingus for both partners can be supplemented with anal plugs. The vibrating models will provide men with a good prostate massage, and for women they will affect the erogenous points of the back wall of the vagina.
Positions for rimming
The most comfortable position for anilingus is on your back with your legs bent and raised. You can fix your knees with your hands, some people find it more comfortable to hold on to your feet. It is desirable to put a thick roller under the lower back. In this position the prostate is protruding in men, and in women – the front wall of the vagina with the G-spot. All erogenous zones become more accessible and sensitive.
The second place for the convenience of access can be given to the lap-octave position (cancer, doggy style) with a downward bend. It provides excellent access to the anus. Many women in this position increase the sensitivity of the vagina – you can use a vibrator. For men it is convenient to stimulate the penis.
The 69 position is not a bad option for anilingus. If both partners have a flexible spine, you can try mutual anal caressing. The lower one lifts his bent legs up and tucks his pelvis, while the upper one lowers his buttocks on his face and leans over his anus.
A less comfortable option for anilingus is facializing. A woman or man squats over her partner’s face. Disadvantages: the lower one will have a tired neck and the upper one will have tired thighs. It is possible to correct the position with the help of pillows and bolsters.
The pose 68 closes the list. One partner lies on his back; the other also lies on top of him with his genitals facing. The disadvantage is the same as in fessittin’: the lower side gets a stiff neck, and the upper side gets tired with the hips and arms.
Conclusion
Rimmimg is the licking of the anus in order to give your partner sexual satisfaction. The process requires thorough hygiene of both the anus and the mouth, not only before, but also after. If a partner categorically denies rimming, it is not necessary to pressure him or her and convince that loving people should like everything.
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